Whew, I’m home. That was an intense 4 days and I won’t bore you with the details. Suffice it to say I have already failed to leave 6 comments per day for NCLM, and am hoping that if I leave 24 today, it might make up for it…
I had a very interesting conversation with a good friend yesterday. We discussed a great deal of ‘deep’ stuff and both got a lot out of it. One thing she said struck a real chord with me: the add-on model of change doesn’t work. By which she meant you have to let something go in order to bring on something new. (Emptying of the cup again). We were talking about roles, and specifically the amount of time I spend in the role of organiser, managing my life to the nth degree. And in order to have more room for other roles (maybe, say, sex-goddess) I would have to let some of the organising go. Because I don’t have enough energy OR time to keep all that organising on, AND add in other stuff (creativity, blogging, etc).
We were discussing our sex lives, specifically, and trying to identify areas in which we’d like to see improvements. And then figuring out how we’d best be able to make the changes to get what we want. She said to me: Q: How much pressure do you put on yourself to be project manager of your life? A: a lot. Q: and how much pressure do you put on yourself to be ‘harem’ girl? A: none.
So. A little insight into where I am investing my energy.
Maybe I COULD leave those dishes on the sink for a whole day?
ETA: I have managed 15 comments so far. And can I say I am finding it disconcerting to read about how it is Thursday when Friday is almost over for me?
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